The Big ‘O’: Simple Tips For A Great Orgasm
Women know that most times, only penetration isn’t enough to reach ‘there’. You need a little bit extra ‘something’, some oregano, salt ‘n’ pepper perhaps? (Not literally, of course.) Here are a few things you could try.
You are at the bar and a cute (and by cute we mean kayoot) guy approaches you. He’s smart, funny, sensitive, and he likes you. Of course you want him! So you get a room and spend the next 3 ½ hours trying to get an orgasm.
It’s happened to all of us, ladies. But what is it that is stopping us from graduating the O level? Believe it or not, it could be you.
Only a shocking 30 per cent of women have orgasms from intercourse alone. Most women need something extra. Are you wondering what? Try some of these, and you’ll never waste 3 ½ hours again.
We have you covered. You’re welcome.
It clit – The clitoris, that tiny feel good button isn’t there to just look good. Befriending your clitoris is the first step to a smashing climax. So yes, this means getting cozy with yourself and masturbating, so you can support your partner in getting you there the next time.
Camp at base II – Your breasts have an impressive network of nerve endings, making it a major erogenous zone. Some women can even orgasm by nipple stimulation alone! Don’t worry, you’ll get there. Stimulation of the nipples can also result in an extra release of oxytocin, the ‘love hormone’, which will enhance your orgasm.
Dress it up – That’s right. Role play is the best kind of foreplay. Where else will you get a chance to be someone else for a whole night? You could be a sexy waitress, a stripper, an HR manager out on a business trip, or the clichéd librarian. There’s no need to be ashamed of letting out your inner devil. Be the Satan’s mistress, and we assure you he’ll appreciate it.
Secret Kegels – The muscles you strengthen during Kegel exercises, the PC (pubococcygeus), are some of the muscles that contract during orgasm, so toning them enhances those sensations and intensifies climax. The best part is, you can do it anywhere, anytime, and nobody would even know. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles (muscles you use when you have to control your going-to-the-washroom urge), hold the contraction for 5 seconds, and then relax for 5 seconds. Maintain your focus. Repeat 3 times a day.
R-e-l-a-x – It’s very important to let go. You cannot orgasm if you’re thinking at the speed of a fighter jet. Just shut body issues (and all other issues) out. He’s with you because he finds you sexy. You’re the most exquisite thing he’s ever seen. Now, get to it!