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8 Most Important Things Women Want In Their Relationships

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8 Most Important Things Women Want In Their Relationships

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On this International Women’s Day, we finally have an answer to, “What do women really want?”. Maybe.

Women are really not as complex as men make them out to be. Most women have a checklist in their head of what they want out of a relationship. It’s actually not that difficult to please us. I’m not saying there aren’t some high-maintenance drama queens out there, but for the most part, we’re quite simple. And hey, you think there are no high-maintenance drama queens amongst the men? Well, moving on…

What are we looking for?
  1. Respect – We want to be respected as equals. Why would you treat us like we’re not? We may have different opinions, careers, and friends, and we definitely don’t need to agree on everything. But value our opinions, our decisions, and take what we do seriously.
  2. To be wooed – Remember when we started dating, and you came by every day to see me, took me out for meals, or showered me with gifts without any reason? I still want to be treated as special, at least once in a while. Tell me you love me as you walk past – the thrill of hearing you say it still gives me a high. I don’t want an elaborate bouquet of flowers; I’d be happy with a small bunch of my favourite. I don’t want an expensive gift; a romantic card on my birthday will be great (actually, I wouldn’t mind if you bought a tiny present along with). It just makes me feel special, and tells me you still care.
  3. Sex – You know women want it just as much as men. We’re happy with hot, steamy, quick sex sometimes, but a straight home run doesn’t work for us always. There is a reason why foreplay and sex are talked about together. Sometimes, even an intimate massage is enough to get our fire going.
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4. Time – Time with you, and time to myself. I know it’s not fair to expect you to give up things you enjoy, and spend all your free time with me. Just remember the reasons why you started dating me in the first place. Make time to do things with me too. If I can make you feel special, then you can take the initiative to take the burden off me sometimes, and give me some time to myself – whether we’re dating, living in, or married.


5. Listen – Don’t switch off when I start talking. If I ask you what you did today and you say ‘nothing’, that doesn’t mean I’m not going to tell you about my day. If I’m upset or stressed about something, listen to me. ‘Hmmm’ is not really a response. I open my heart up to you because I trust you, and feel that you care. Don’t ignore my voice or my feelings.


6. Appreciation – I come out of the bedroom dressed in a sexy dress, waiting for your reaction, and all I get is a glance, and a, “Let’s go, we’ll be late”. If I cook for you your favourite meal, don’t take me for granted and walk away without even acknowledging the effort. I enjoy cooking because I know you love the food I make, but that doesn’t mean it’s not tiring. A little appreciation never hurt anyone.


7. Communicate – I need to know that I’m an important part of your life. Don’t keep things bottled up, and feel that you can deal with it all on your own, because it’s the man thing to do. A relationship means that your partner is there for you when you need them. Keeping me out is extremely detrimental to our relationship. You don’t have to wear your heart on your sleeve, but sometimes, open up about what you’re feeling.


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8. Humour – Let’s enjoy life to the fullest. Life is full of hardships; but then, so is everyone else’s. Whoever said ‘laughter is the best medicine’, knew what they were talking about. It helps take the edge off any situation. So let’s learn to laugh together, sometimes at ourselves too.


I recently read a quote somewhere which said, “If a man truly loves you, he won’t make you fight alone. He’ll be working with you to make it work, because he knows it’s not just your responsibility, nor is it solely his”. Here’s to better relationships all around.

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